Miss A Columnist

Lisa Beth Miller is the Entertaining & Weddings Editor for Miss A. She has been involved in the wedding industry for several years. Lisa is a bridal consultant and director of marketing and public relations for Blush Bridal Boutique and an event designer at Main Street Weddings, both local wedding businesses. In this capacity, Lisa writes the blog, website copy, and promotional materials for these businesses and assists with event planning. She was formerly a bridal consultant and did marketing and public relations work for A Formal Affair Bridal and Formalwear Boutique and was the creator of their Bridal University workshops. Additionally, Lisa teaches English, journalism, and photojournalism classes at Liberty High School in Bealeton, Virginia. She advises the school's award-winning publications, Talon yearbook and Patriot Press newspaper. As junior class sponsor, she also assists in planning Liberty's prom. Lisa has written several published articles. These include an article about advising student publications for Accents (Southern Interscholastic Press Association’s journal),an article about the royal wedding for Northern Virginia Magazine, an article about local proms for Warrenton Lifestyle magazine, and four stories about wedding planning and wedding fashion for the 2012 Northern Virginia Bridal Guide. Lisa holds an undergraduate degree in English and journalism education from Millersville University of Pennsylvania and a graduate degree in education and library science from Longwood University.

Do’s and Don’ts For Planning A Fabulous Engagement Party

Planning an engagement party? I recently chatted with Ricky Eisen, a celebrated event planner and the founder of Events & Celebrations by Between the Bread, about how to go about planning this type of event.  She offered these helpful “do’s” and “don’ts” to assist our readers:

Photo Credit: theengagementparty.net.

Do’s and Don’ts of Planning an Engagement Party

The Engagement Party is usually the first opportunity for friends and family from both sides of the aisle to meet each other, and for absent relatives to become reacquainted with each other.  Therefore, engagement parties should be planned as “Meet and Greet” events with mingling and mixing in mind.

Some Do’s:

Do use small cocktail tables: Whether you are planning a cocktail or a dinner party, use smaller tables mixed in with high airport style tables and stools.  This will encourage and enable guests to easily mingle, dance, eat and drink–all the elements that make for a great celebration.

Do plan your event with buffet style accommodations: Buffet meals are best for this type of occasion. If space allows, separate the different elements of the meal into separate stations. Carving stations, sushi stations and pasta stations are all ideal because service is quick and the food will not diminish over the party’s duration. Select food that will hold up well under the stress of continuous heating (like that from sterno cans) for a protracted period of time.

Do create or purchase small desserts: Dessert is an important element to an engagement party but an engagement cake is not.  I prefer to create a singular and creative dessert buffet by making (or buying) smaller cakes of different flavors. Another idea is to have cupcakes, fresh cut fruit and some cookies. Also, adding edible favors to the dessert buffet, such as pre-wrapped cookies with the engaged couple’s initials is a nice touch.  I’d also recommend the addition of a large selection of candy in the party’s themed color: put clear cellophane bags on the side and encourage guests to load up.

Do choose a color scheme that you can tie in with other essentials: Decorating an engagement party is also very important but don’t over-do it. Themes are not as important as choosing a color.  By keeping to a single color, you can tie all the elements together to make for a memorable event. Add sparkle to the room by using Christmas decorations such as strings of lights or crystal garland.  Flowers and candles are always a good way to create ambiance as well.

Do choose the right background music: Music is important when bringing strangers together, as it delivers background noise, which easily fills the room when the conversation hits a lull for a bit. I suggest two types of playlists; the first should be filled with mellower music selections. This music should be low and soft, so guests are able to easily talk to each other, introductions can be made, and the food can be enjoyed. If the music is too loud when people are trying to say hello, they end up shouting above the noise. The second playlist I suggest would be a selection of louder music to which your guests can dance following dinner.

Some Don’ts:

Don’t have a seating arrangement: Don’t assign seats. If your guests are all seated they will stay with the group they know.

Don’t use large round tables that mimic a wedding: These tables tend to establish “ownership” and again, your guests will not mingle.

Don’t serve a plated meal: Think of a buffet table as the water cooler–a great place to meet and chat with people you don’t know.


Related Articles:

Fatal error: Uncaught Exception: 190: Error validating application. Application has been deleted. (190) thrown in /home/askmissa/public_html/wp-content/plugins/seo-facebook-comments/facebook/base_facebook.php on line 1273