Comments on: Meeting Guys When I’m Out With The Girls http://askmissa.com/2009/04/03/meeting-guys-out-with-girl/ Love Life Thu, 09 Sep 2010 00:24:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jason http://askmissa.com/2009/04/03/meeting-guys-out-with-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-4903 Jason Fri, 03 Apr 2009 17:35:59 +0000 http://askmissa.com/?p=1909#comment-4903 Men will ask for your # if THEY are interested in you and you are not showing disinterest. talking to them is not disinterest. neither is being friendly. Confident men have gotten used to that fact that some interested women are shy and dont SHOW much interest right off - for them...talking to us for X # of minutes shows interest. Its a problem because some women who dont show intersested only get aggressive men chasing them because the other guys (who may be less confident but good guys) assume noninterest. Yes, you can say you have a b/f. OR (whether attached or just not interested in dating them)...treat them like a friend. If they ask for your # or say u should hangout sometime, say u r always looking for cool new friends. Maybe talk about having friends you might be able to hook them up w/. Or talk about dates you are going on. or talk about the kind of guys u like (maybe point one out in the venue) and they (the menu like) need to not match their characteristics. Keep in mind that a jerk is a jerk (male or female), and you'll have to fight that type off even if you say you have a b/f or g/f. -Jason Men will ask for your # if THEY are interested in you and you are not showing disinterest. talking to them is not disinterest. neither is being friendly. Confident men have gotten used to that fact that some interested women are shy and dont SHOW much interest right off – for them…talking to us for X # of minutes shows interest. Its a problem because some women who dont show intersested only get aggressive men chasing them because the other guys (who may be less confident but good guys) assume noninterest.

Yes, you can say you have a b/f.

OR (whether attached or just not interested in dating them)…treat them like a friend. If they ask for your # or say u should hangout sometime, say u r always looking for cool new friends. Maybe talk about having friends you might be able to hook them up w/. Or talk about dates you are going on. or talk about the kind of guys u like (maybe point one out in the venue) and they (the menu like) need to not match their characteristics.

Keep in mind that a jerk is a jerk (male or female), and you’ll have to fight that type off even if you say you have a b/f or g/f.

-Jason

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