Dear Miss A,
What’s the best way to apologize for drunk text? I wrote something kind of provocative but nothing to bad. She texted me back, “maybe next time.” The problem would be that I only met her the night before. Help!
Dear Dirty Texter,
I wouldn’t worry too much about it since she responded to you. I think that shows she was ok with what you wrote, and is receptive to you. Otherwise, she wouldn’t have responded to you. If you see her out, just make a joke about it.
Now that we know she is receptive to your advances, I suggest that you be a man and actually call her at a decent hour and ask her out. Texting is a great way to flirt, but I think it shows weakness when it’s used to make plans with someone you’re interested in. I know you have to put yourself on the line more than you do with a simple late night text message, but greater risk leads to greater reward. You’ll end up with a better girl – one that doesn’t accept booty texts late at night.
Hope this helps,
Andrea Rodgers is a Dating & Relationship Expert for HealthCentral’s Sexual Health Connection. Email questions to firstname.lastname@example.org.